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How to Please a Woman in Bed

February 13, 2015 By WebGlitzer

Being able to satisfy your woman in bed is more about understanding her needs than it is improving your lovemaking techniques. Putting your partners sexual needs ahead of yours will reward you with more benefits than you can imagine. The one thing that you need to understand at the onset, when you learn how to please a woman in bed, you will be rewarded by a woman who will look for ways to return the favor under the sheets. If you can work on the mind of your woman and let her experience powerful orgasms that rock every inch of her body, chances are your sex life is going to improve dramatically. Learning to satisfy your woman in bed is not about stamina, sexual positions, or even size, it is about connecting with her on an emotional level that lets her release her passionate side more easily.

Try these six simple techniques on how to please a woman in bed if you want to turn that little sex-kitten into a roaring sexual tiger.

Focus Your Efforts on Foreplay

The one thing that you have to understand about women is that foreplay means more to them than getting yourself aroused to the point you can finally penetrate her. Foreplay for a woman begins long before you even take her clothes off. While you are hurrying to get undressed and get a rock hard erection, you are missing a great opportunity to give her the best sexual experience of her life. Whisper in her ear how sexy she looks, tell her that you can not imagine what it will feel like to be inside her tonight, and remind her that her body is a work of art. Gently kiss the area behind her ear, slowly whispering little messages about how sexy she is each time you get close enough to the ear. Use your warm tongue to give her goosebumps, and remind her that your tongue wants to taste every inch of her. This will get her juices flowing long before she hits the sheets.

Investing Time to Drive her Crazy

Even before she has a chance to touch you, get to work on her erogenous zones. There are several spots on her body, some more sensitive than others. Pay close attention to how she reacts after you rip off her clothes and lie her on the bed and work your tongue from her ears, shoulders, belly, hips, knees, to her toes. These are body parts you most likely have avoided in the past because you go right to the breasts or vagina. Work on her erogenous zones, until you find that one spot that has her screaming in ecstasy. Once you find the perfect spot, start nibbling on the skin, then work your way back to her ears and whisper if she wants you to stop. When she screams “NO”, go back to work on her. Remember these special spots in the future, that way you can drive her crazy on demand.

Pay Attention to Those Breasts

Most guys think that playing with a woman’s breast during foreplay does the job, then they simply get down to business as usual, putting their focus on having sex and not continuing with breast play. Touching her breasts during sex is actually more stimulating for her, although it might seem challenging dependent on the type of sex you have. In missionary positions, pay more attention to the breasts by kissing and nibbling on them as you thrust inside her. Her breasts are full of nerves that come to life when she is aroused. Surprise her during missionary sex by pulling out and gently rubbing the head of the penis across her nipples. During doggy-style sex, take your hands off her hips and reach around to cup the breasts, rubbing the nipples with your fingertips.

Painting an Erotic Picture for Her

One of the biggest differences in the sexual experience for men and women is the ladies rely more on feelings than they do any visual appearances. This means you need to paint a picture for her that she can draw upon when you finally get her in the bed. You have the power to get her aroused long before the two of you even get in the bedroom if you understand what to say to her. Whisper in her ear about a fantasy that you already know excites her. Use seductive words to help remind her that you plan on turning that fantasy into reality this evening. Understand that this is not about talking dirty to her, it is about using words that trigger in her mind that fantasy they gets her wet and on fire. Once you know how to get her excited outside the bedroom, she will lock onto you during sex and give you the best orgasm of your life.

Be a Giver

What guy doesn’t love watching his lady go down on him before sex? Many guys however think this is simply a way to get that throbbing erection before sex, assuming that the sex will satisfy her rather than simply returning the favor. If you really want to learn how to please a woman in bed, stop being selfish and get to work on satisfying some of her needs before you have sex. As great as you feel after she gives you oral sex, imagine for a moment when you bring her to orgasm orally how she is going to perform in bed soon after. Most guys have a wild animal on their hands that they simply never let out of the cage. When giving her oral sex, look into her eyes, stop and ask her if you should stop, tease her by kissing her inner thighs and making her wait, and when she is having an orgasm make sure that you ask her to tell you how it feels. You better have a seat belt handy because she is going to return that favor in ways you couldn’t imagine.

The Show Isn’t Over Just Yet

Too many guys think that as soon as they climax, it is time to rollover and get some sleep. While having a powerful orgasm does drain the man of energy, if you want to continue to learn how to please a woman in bed, you have to pay her close attention after sex. In many cases she may not have had an orgasm before you, so once you ejaculate she realizes she is not going to climax this evening. As you both lie next to each other, gently caress her breasts and give her gentle kisses all over her neck, reminding her how incredibly sexy her body is. You might be surprised to see that this little sexy pillow talk is just enough to give her a powerful orgasm as she lies in your arms. Cuddling up after sex is a great way to connect emotionally with her, so make sure you do it every time you have sex.

Learning how to please a woman in bed isn’t really that difficult, it just requires a shift in your focus. By placing your efforts on pleasing her before, during, and after sex, she will turn around and transform your sexual experiences into mind-blowing and earth shattering nights you will not soon forget.

Do Pheromones Work?

August 1, 2014 By WebGlitzer

The debate between those who believe pheromones actually play a role in the mating game and those who regard it has fiction is still going strong. Even after 40 years it is still one of the most discussed topics in the world of science and several cologne companies have capitalized on the idea. Several studies and expert opinions have surfaced in a variety of medical journals, debunking the theory on one side and promoting it on the other. Where does it leave the people who don’t have a college degree in medical science? Can nobody give a clear answer to the question “Do pheromones work?” Considering all the opinions, it’s best to break down the facts and see where they lead.

Where did this Theory come from?

The year was 1971 and an undergraduate of Wesley College by the name of Martha McClintock led a study that would spark the heavy debate of pheromones. As a side note, this wasn’t the first study that involved pheromones, but McClintock’s research did manage to capture a lot of attention. The research she was doing might sound familiar, but don’t feel embarrassed if you haven’t heard of it before. It focused on menstrual periods. More specifically, it focused on how menstrual periods synchronized between women that spent a lot of time together.

Everyone can agree that this isn’t the most comfortable topic, but it does get a little more interesting. The research in the 1970’s couldn’t pin-point the exact reason why this synchronization took place, but McClintock proposed the idea that pheromones were involved. The research didn’t end there and a long way down the line something even more uncomfortable was discovered. In 1998 McClintock and her partner, Dr. Kathleen Stern, proved that placing sweat on the lips of a woman could in fact bring about her cycle quicker, or it could delay it. The uncomfortable part has to be where they harvested the sweat. It came from the armpits of another woman. Unfortunately this was all they could prove, because they couldn’t factually state what the sweat contained to cause this result.

How does this Research Affect the Dispute?

In essence this research showed that pheromones can indeed have a long-term effect on issues like menstrual cycles and puberty. However, it couldn’t prove anything in terms of what people really wanted to know, which is whether it can influence human behavior in short bursts of contact. In other words, could it make people more sexually attractive and confident? The research that focused on the latter aspect came back with mixed results and determined, at that point, that pheromones didn’t really have a significant effect on humans.

This didn’t stop enterprises from creating colognes that apparently make the opposite sex more attractive. Their main ingredients were androstadienone and estratetraenol, the former aimed at men and the latter was produced for women. You have to hand it to Dr. McClintock, given her passion to find forward moving evidence, because she didn’t agree with these companies. Her skepticism towards the research of these companies remained evident and she argued that the perfumes acted as a “moderator” instead of a “release”. By this she meant that it changed psychological behavior instead of naturally unlocking a primal instinct.

Is this getting closer to the Answer?

At this point it’s still a 50/50 subject with one expert throwing studies at another expert, who then turns it around and throws it back. However, there are many reputable experts who firmly believe that chemosignals play a big part in communication. Apart from other sub-conscious signals, like for instance body language, there are elements that either attract or reject advances from the opposite sex. The only problem with this theory seems to reside in two specific questions.

If in fact humans generate pheromones, where do they generate it from? (and)

If in fact humans are influenced by these pheromones, how does it reach the brain?

For those who paid attention in biology class another question will probably be forming in the back of your brain. Every animal and plant releases pheromones in order to signal the time for mating, so why don’t humans? This is very true, and pheromones from a moth are able to travel great distances. To be more specific, it can travel for miles. This evidence alone should be sufficient in proving that pheromones can increase sexual tension between two people who might not even like each other to start with.

Unfortunately the counter theory for this also holds some crucial points. Modern living, especially when it involves taking a shower every day, has caused the natural odor of humans to fade away in a manner of speaking. For the majority of animals and plants, sex is a means to an end. Wham, bam thank you mam, now leave me alone. All they want to do is reproduce, whereas humans are more conscious about the decision. Sex has become a form of great pleasure and entertainment as supposed to a fundamental need to cultivate colonies. Ultimately humans have disconnected from nature on a large scale and if pheromones ever did play a part in our development, could it really survive the huge amount of cologne, perfume, spray, shampoo and soaps?

We think we have proven conclusively that the effectiveness of pheromones is greatly enhanced based on your looks and especially your body build…

Conclusion

The best and most truthful answer is to approach the theory of pheromones with an open mind. In scientific terms there is no defining answer to whether it works, so it’s up to personal opinion until the smart people can conclusively figure it out. For curiosity sake, taking a look at whether pheromone perfume actually works, it seems to be getting a lot of reaction. If you can get past the bias funding from pharmaceutical companies that sell them, a lot of people have stated that they get the reaction they want. What should also be considered in these statements is that no singular element contributes to sexual attraction. Unless the people involved are drunk beyond common sense, several factors will determine if you are going to get laid. There is a very good chance that pheromones will help in the process, but it won’t save you when you are doing everything else wrong. Neither should you expect to walk into a room and have the ladies hover around you like flies simply because you enticed their sub-conscious nasal senses. If this happens then get your wallet ready for a “per-hour” rating.

Sex as A Weapon

May 9, 2014 By WebGlitzer

This could be one way to win a war because men would surrender in droves and want to be taken prisoner.

Everyone knows women can use sex as a weapon. The reason for this is much to do with genetics than anything else. Women are predisposed to find and procreate with one man where as a man is predisposed to procreate with as many women as possible. This puts man at a distinct disadvantage.

Women are programmed to be picky. The fact is that they can pretty much pick and choose who they do or do not want to sleep with. Even the not so attractive girls.

For example, just go to a club and watch what happens. An average girl can have a dozen hot guys after her and turn them all down. But no matter how hot a guy is. There is no way in hell a dozen girls will be lining up for him. Not unless he’s a movie or rock star.

This means that man is ultimately at the whim of what girls “say” as far as sex is concerned. Anyone who has had a long-term girlfriend or been married will know that one of the worst things your girlfriend or wife can do is “cut you off”. Even worse than taking your golf clubs into the garage and snapping them in half.

There is no greater act of defiance or greater source of annoyance for men than to have a woman “cut him off”. It’s one of the worst feeling in the world.

As you likely know, you will have to get back into her good graces or grant her wishes if you want some action again. To really set things off, the defenseless man often goes on the offensive and goes out for “some strange”. If she won’t put out, I’ll find someone who will! is often the poor man’s mantra, which usually just makes matters worse…

Even marriage isn’t a bastion of free sex. Women are the worst offenders for closing their legs and rolling over when the mood takes them. And there is no way no how that this will ever change. Women will always have the pick of men. Always have the upper hand. Men will always be second fiddle. Girls know exactly what to say and when to say it to get what they like.

Women use sex all the time as a weapon to get what they want. For instance if your wife is insisting on two weeks in Barbados for a good holiday, but you are far more interested in going to cabin in Rhode Island which is free –

You can be defenseless against a woman using sex as a weapon. But two women using sex as a weapon is an unfair fight.

it can be an opener to her pulling out the gun and holding you at bay. She’ll can pretty much cut off your sex privileges unless those two weeks in Barbados are booked. A personal example is of a long time girlfriend of mine who after several years into the relationship, stopped being in “the mood” sex unless I took her out for a night on the town in a limo, or stayed in an expensive

Even though she has an ass that will “blow you away”, it can be used as a loaded weapon…

hotel. I ended up doing the “grudge thing” and that pretty much ended it because I didn’t even try to hide it. To let you know it can still work out – she is now one of my best friends (and not a f-buddy either).

Most men are complete and utter suckers with women sexually and will almost bend over backwards and in half to get back in their good books. Or in this case panties.

In many ways it may appear a wife has the underhand because the guy may have more money, especially if his income is dependent on paying the mortgage, household bills, and the like. But again, actually the fact is a woman has the complete upper hand over everything. If a guy refuses to have sex with his wife she typically can shrug it off. But as soon as a woman says no sex tonight, that’s it! Armageddon ensues and the world as he knows it comes to an end.

Fill her closet with shoes and her wardrobe with dresses. But make sure there is something else she needs because as soon as she has everything she wants. She can be gone quicker than a French guy in a war zone. (ed note: straight off the lips of a Brit)

A woman can sleep with a guy in exchange for expensive gifts. I even know a girl who slept with a rich guy just long enough to get a free car. Maybe it was worth it for both of them?

How do you think Hugh Hefner got caught – several times? He was hunted down…

Sex is a ball very much in the woman’s court. And you have to be Johnny Depp or George Clooney to have even a slight chance at playing with that ball. For the rest of us we have to pray that women don’t take us to the cleaners. Or at least get the most bang for our buck before the magic wears off.

Editor’s Note: The views expressed in this article are those of James Marlin, a columnist for Impulse Man and don’t directly reflect the views of Impulse Man. The article is presented as one way to look at how women can wield power from sex.

What Men Need to Know about Attracting Women with Pheromones

July 20, 2013 By WebGlitzer

What are Pheromones?

There are claims that pheronomes can have a big effect on attracting women – especially with regards to sexual their desires.

Have you ever heard of guys who may not be exactly good-looking, yet they seem to easily attract gorgeous women by the dozens? Most probably, these men either have a more detectable and higher amount of naturally-occurring pheromones than you or most likely they are using over the counter pheromones. In fact, there have been recent discussions about the fascinating ability of scent attracting the opposite sex. These scents are not similar to the ones featured in popular fragrances that you can find in common stores. Instead, these are scents that contain certain components that serve as sex attractants.

Basic Facts about Pheromones

Scientists have detected the presence of pheromones in all species such as insects, reptiles, and even humans. Primarily, pheromones are subconscious sex attractants, which are detected by a specialized structure inside the nose or the vomeronasal organ. This nasal structure detects these seemingly odorless and invisible airborne pheromone molecules, which may occur through urine or sweat. However, this special organ is only present in 80 percent of humans, and scientists believe that the organ has become diminished because of its disuse over hundreds of years.

Scientist don’t have to be dull, boring and homely…

In insects and animals, pheromones work to attract mates from a distance of up to two miles away, with the exception of moths and butterflies that can detect pheromones from up to 6 miles away. However, these pheromones are not permanent. When transported through air, the effects tend to last for only a few minutes. Nevertheless, these sex attractants work excellently to help creatures such as animals and insects to procure a mate.

In the case of humans, as well as some species, pheromones are sensed by the vomeronasal organ and are sent to the hypothalamus. This part of the brain is also known for its ability to alter one’s hormones, emotions, reproduction and sexual behavior.

Can Pheromones Make You More Appealing?

A muscular body can’t hurt, but the secret weapon might just be pheromones.

Researchers at the University of Chicago and University of Utah have discovered that pheromones are capable of altering one’s heart rate, breathing, body temperature, and mood.

In a controlled study by scientists at the San Francisco State University, in California, it revealed that 75 percent of the study participants who applied synthetic pheromones were observed to be more sexually appealing to members of the opposite sex. These individuals also mixed the odorless and colorless liquid with their favorite cologne or aftershave, and they noticed favorable results in attracting women.

How to Use Pheromones to Attract Women

Science has discovered and revealed the remarkable effects of pheromones in attracting women. On this basis laboratories have been able to create synthetic pheromones that mimic human emissions of these molecules. Furthermore, these pheromones contain a variety of strength for each scent, and you can control the amount that you wish to apply. There are also instructions included in every package, so you will be guided on how to use these products to obtain the best results.

Pheromone Products

There are several effective and very popular products available online such as: Edge Trust Pheromone Spray, Men’s New Pheromone Additive, Alpha 7 Scented for Men, Chikara Pheromone Cologne for Men, Beginner Special for Men, and the Chikara Pheromones Gel for Men. Each of these products contain unique formulations that give them a distinct effect on you.

For instance, the Chikara pheromone cologne has the latest proprietary formula of 3 essential pheromones included in top-selling products and an additional 4 pheromones that have never been used in perfumery. This means, there are a total of 7 pheromones in each bottle including the standard androsterone, androstenol, and androstenone.

Pheromones Sample Pack

On the other hand, the Alpha 7 pheromone cologne comes with a new scent that is similar to the one you can find in the Primal Instinct pheromones. In addition, the product has a blend of the finest essential oils that are renowned for their effect in attracting the women. To balance out the essential oils are extracts from spices such as cinnamon, clove and vanilla, also known to be attractants to women.

Another bestselling aphrodisiac in the market today is Edge Trust pheromone, which contains specially-designed formulations that you can apply directly to your clothes or skin. The light fragrance makes it appealing and irresistible to women. Moreover, it includes the right combination of pheromones and oxytocin, which is a type of chemical that facilitates social bonding and helps eliminate shyness or other types of social phobias.

If you can’t decide, then the pheromones sample pack would be a good way to start out, however if you just want to go with one sure product, then you can’t go wrong with Mojo Pro. Like the name suggests, Mojo Pro Pheromones is a powerful boost to your sexual attractiveness. It comes in a pocket size atomizer making it easy to apply pheromones anytime – anywhere by simply spraying on your neck and wrists. It can be used as a key chain, but we don’t recommend that you flash this around in front of the ladies. There is no need for them to know why they crave you so much.

The makers of Mojo Pro currently has a special in effect if you use Promo Code: MoJo-MoJo

Additional Details about Attracting Women with Pheromones

Make it a point to use unscented soap or body wash to help maintain your natural male pheromones to work in conjunction with the mentioned pheromone products.

It is very important to note that because removing body hair is so common now days, the practice actually reduces your pheromones. The reason is that male pheromones tend to latch onto your body hair giving you more pheromones. If you do keep your body hair trimmed, it is all the more reason to boost your natural pheromones with pheromones products.

How To Increase Semen Volume – Methods You Can Use

December 1, 2012 By WebGlitzer

How To Increase Semen Volume – Methods You Can Use

Whether size of man’s manhood makes any difference depends on who you talk to man or woman. Some women want it big and others don’t seem to mind. A long used girl talk goes something like this: “He’s not that big, but he sure knows how to use it!” Most women will admit that use is of major importance no matter what the size.

Men on the other hand seem to base their opinion on their own circumstance on the importance of size, but there probably isn’t a man living who would turn down an inch or two. Note how many penis enlargement products are being marketed.

When it comes to semen volume, some of the same biases surface – more is better. Being the biggest cock on the walk can be pretty inflating when it only produces a small dribble. This can be well hidden by the use of condoms or ejaculating inside your woman. But here again, hardly a man would turn down extra volume in their fountain of youth.

Although there are many claimed methods of penis enhancement, there are things that you can do to increase your volume of semen (even the taste that we’ll cover later). However, you must know the different factors reduces your semen volume. Here are some methods that you can use to generate more semen and quality semen at that!

Avoid using tight pants or tight underwear. This actually increases the temperature of the testicles and as a result, the semen volume decreases. It is natural that you cannot wear loose pants everywhere or go around using loose underwear or no underwear at all and hence, when you come back home at the end of the day, make sure that you get into something loose which will allow proper ventilation channels to pass air so that your testicles can become cool again. Using pajamas or anything of that sort is advised.

If you are taking bath in warm water, the temperature of your testicles will increase. You must make sure that after you take bath, you wash your testicles with cool water. This will keep your testicles cool and prevent decrease in semen volume.

Refrain yourself from eating fatty food. There is something that you need to know about fat. Fat is not only responsible for making you fat but at the same time, it is also responsible for hindering the production of the hormone testosterone. This hormone aids in production of semen. If the volume of testosterone goes down, the semen volume will also go down. So, avoid food that contains fat.

Sex is always great. That is OK, but that never means that you will have sex every day. Your testicles need time to regenerate the semen that is lost during sex and hence, when you want to increase your semen volume you must maintain a gap of around 2-3 days so that your testicles get the time and produce more semen. This is also true for masturbation.

Stress is a major factor which is responsible for the reduction the semen volume and hence, if you are having stress, it is always advised that you address ways to lower the stress. Go the natural way and use yoga. Adding a yoga exercise for semen development will just be a bonus. On one hand, semen increases because stress decreases and on the other hand, semen increases because of the specific yoga for increasing semen.

Water is an integral part of the life. Many people do not know that drinking water can not only take care of many diseases but it also helps in increasing semen volume. Yes, you heard it right! Keep your body hydrated and the volume of semen will increase.

Certain foods and vitamins also increase semen volume. Note that vitamins are great aids, but not a substitute for following all the above methods. There a various vitamins and supplements available online.

Lastly, and probably the most enjoyable factor that increase semen volume is the level of arousal the sexual act is producing. A highly turned on man will have a better orgasm and produce more semen. Sexual arousal acts like a boost and cannot produce more semen that is present in the testicles, but it will see that more of what’s there gets out.