This could be one way to win a war because men would surrender in droves and want to be taken prisoner.

Everyone knows women can use sex as a weapon. The reason for this is much to do with genetics than anything else. Women are predisposed to find and procreate with one man where as a man is  predisposed to procreate with as many women as possible. This puts man at a distinct disadvantage.

Women are programmed to be picky.  The fact is that they can pretty much pick and choose who they do or do not want to sleep with. Even the not so attractive girls.

For example, just go to a club and watch what happens. An average girl can have a dozen hot guys after her and turn them all down. But no matter how hot a guy is. There is no way in hell a dozen girls will be lining up for him. Not unless he’s a movie or rock star.

This means that man is ultimately at the whim of what girls “say” as far as sex is concerned. Anyone who has had a long-term girlfriend or been married will know that one of the worst things your girlfriend or wife can do is “cut you off”. Even worse than taking your golf clubs into the garage and snapping them in half.

There is no greater act of defiance or greater source of annoyance for men than to have a woman “cut him off”. It’s one of the worst feeling in the world.

As you likely know, you will have to get back into her good graces or grant her wishes if you want some action again.  To really set things off, the defenseless man often goes on the offensive and goes out for “some strange”.  If she won’t put out, I’ll find someone who will!  is often the poor man’s mantra, which usually just makes matters worse…

Even marriage isn’t a bastion of free sex. Women are the worst offenders for closing their legs and rolling over when the mood takes them. And there is no way no how that this will ever change. Women will always have the pick of men. Always have the upper hand. Men will always be second fiddle. Girls know exactly what to say and when to say it to get what they like.

Women use sex all the time as a weapon to get what they want. For instance if your wife is insisting on two weeks in Barbados for a good holiday, but you are far more interested in going to cabin in Rhode Island which is free – 

You can be defenseless against a woman using sex as a weapon. But two women using sex as a weapon is an unfair fight.

it can be an opener to her pulling out the gun and holding you at bay.  She’ll can pretty much cut off your sex privileges unless those two weeks in Barbados are booked.  A personal example is of a long time girlfriend of mine who after several years into the relationship, stopped being in “the mood” sex unless I took her out for a night on the town in a limo, or stayed in an expensive

Even though she has an ass that will “blow you away”, it can be used as a loaded weapon…

hotel.  I ended up doing the “grudge thing” and that pretty much ended it because I didn’t even try to hide it.  To let you know it can still work out – she is now one of my best friends (and not a f-buddy either).

Most men are complete and utter suckers with women sexually and will almost bend over backwards and in half to get back in their good books. Or in this case panties.

In many ways it may appear a wife has the underhand because the guy may have more money, especially if his income is dependent on paying the mortgage, household bills, and the like.  But again, actually the fact is a woman has the complete upper hand over everything. If a guy refuses to have sex with his wife she typically can shrug it off.  But as soon as a woman says no sex tonight, that’s it!  Armageddon ensues and the world as he knows it comes to an end.

Fill her closet with shoes and her wardrobe with dresses. But make sure there is something else she needs because as soon as she has everything she wants. She can be gone quicker than a French guy in a war zone.  (ed note: straight off the lips of a Brit)

A woman can sleep with a guy in exchange for expensive gifts.  I even know a girl who slept with a rich guy just long enough to get a free car. Maybe it was worth it for both of them?

How do you think Hugh Hefner got caught – several times? He was hunted down…

Sex is a ball very much in the woman’s court. And you have to be Johnny Depp or George Clooney to have even a slight chance at playing with that ball. For the rest of us we have to pray that women don’t take us to the cleaners. Or at least get the most bang for our buck before the magic wears off.

Editor’s Note: The views expressed in this article are those of James Marlin, a columnist for Impulse Man and don’t directly reflect the views of Impulse Man.  The article is presented as one way to look at how women can wield power from sex.