The art of erotic massage is the art of stimulating the senses. Erotic massage is designed to engage the senses and obtaining heightened and long lasting arousal. For this massage, we will focus on tactile sensations to keep the skin tingling and at a heightened state of arousal. We can accomplish this with simple items; soft furs, candles, blind fold, scented oil and hands. The most important tool of all is knowing your partner and how to read their body language.
As with anything else, presentation is everything. Let your subject take in a very relaxed environment. Candles should be lit around the area that the massage is to take place. Soft music can be playing, never loudly because you do not want minds focusing on music. Reduce outside lighting other than what is absolutely required for you to be able to see. This soft lighting and music will set the tone. Disrobed, you should make sure that your partner is comfortably resting. Let them choose their own position that they find most comfortable. It will not change most of what you will do.
Start with a light touch with fingers only. It does not matter if it is done to the front or back. If done on the back, always go down and stop just before the tail bone ends. Remember the idea is to stimulate and arouse, contact with genitalia should be limited. On the front, work fingers along the sides of the breasts down to the belly. Watch out for sensitive areas, ticklish spots should be avoided or more pressure applied to avoid triggering the tickle reflex. Let your partner relax with this touches, gently encourage them to close their eyes.
Limiting vision is a great way to get your partner to focus on their other senses, especially touch. Using a blindfold deprives them of sight and increases anticipation. Increased anticipation will greatly aid in getting to the arousal point and keeping it there. Once blindfolded, use the light touch of soft furs. Rabbit fur is very soft. Avoid short or stiff haired hides. Use the furs to rub down the skin in the same manner as you did with your hands. This draws blood closer to the surface of the skin and makes it even more sensitive. You can even use them to fan or lightly slap the skin. This can drive the sensations wild because it is a break from the constant contact of the rubbing.
Oils should be used sparingly. Scented oils will provide stimulation for the olfactory senses, but it should not be overdone. Oil cuts down on friction so it makes moving over the skin easier. Warmed oil is the best to use, it stimulates the skin and further causes arousal. Continue with the hand massage as we started with, work just low of tail bone or just above the pubic bone. Genitalia contact should be minimal but can definitely strengthen arousal. Do not let yourself linger, no matter how tempting.
Depending on your taste, or the tolerance of your partner, candles can be used to create an intensity. Holding a candle 12 to 18 inches above the skin, drip wax along your partners back. It is important to be able to read their body language to determine if they are too sensitive to this. Keep in mind that the blind fold will intensify this because the body will anticipate but cannot prepare for where or when the wax may be dripped.
After the use of wax it is important to work back into a cool down. At this point alternate between any of the items above. Always end it on a gentle note, with a rub down or the use of furs. This allows a gentle let down rather than an abrupt ending that may ruin the arousal from the massage.